| | Nice guys finish first. ALWAYS. It's the fact of life. They say nice guys finish last because most of them give up before the end of the race. But the truth is, nice guys never finish last if they truly are nice. Trust me. I'm a nice guy! I know all of you are thinking that's bullshit, but it's true! Those of you who know me from highschool (or read my live journal from 10th grade) would not think of me as a nice guy. I'll admit I was defiitely an asshole. But I assure you I'm a much different man from back then. I learned the value of caring. There's a difference between the nice guys that finish last, and the real nice guys that I reperesent. I choose to be nice regardless of what happens because I like to be nice. I don't like to hurt feelings or ruin dinners or any of that. I like making people happy so that's what I try to do the most. Any guy who's nice to a girl, then gets hurt because he's on the friend ladder isn't a nice guy, those underlying motives are just a sign of what he was really after. Being nice is about making people happy! Not about getting anything in return. choosing to be nice out of the sake of being nice is the best way to be. You feel better because even when the times are hard. even when people shun you, outcast you, or tell you "you're trying too hard" you still shower them with affection and smiles and not regret a damn thing. A smile is the best gift you can give by far! I assure you I will never finish last, even though I always respect and care about all my friends and "foes" girls and guys alike.
(Assuming there are foes, more like the people who don't like me). The nice guys let people walk all over them and then feel bad that they let it happen. I don't mind people walking over me, because I know that I will still continue to be happy and nice regardless. My kindness will never be crushed by anybody, because I'm the one in control and I'll never give that up. Nice guys...continue to be nice, cause you offer the world the best damn thing. And don't feel bad if you don't get the girl.
Because in the end you gave the girl a piece of happiness that cannot be taken away. And that's way better than any kind of relationship. |
| | Posted 3/31/2009 10:43 PM - 200 Views - 64 eProps - 34 comments
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You're a great person obviously and you wouldn't want anyones negativity over time to corrupt what YOU have going on. Keep up the good work! I wish all guys were like you.
